Sunday, April 27, 2008

She's here!!!!

All the waiting is finally over :) Baby Joey made her way into this crazy world Wednesday April 23rd at 7:23pm after 17, that's right I said 17 hours of labor!! Here's the tale: Tuesday night Johnny and I were sitting in the living room doing our daily Bible study when Joey got to movin. She hadn't been moving much lately (I guess they tend to slow things down at the end when they run out of room), and she just started going crazy!!! We thought nothing of it and went to bed as usual. At 2:30am I got up for a routine pee session when I realized I couldn't hold this in...yikes. I rushed to the bathroom and my water broke. It was the strangest thing ever. Basically it felt like peeing your pants but warmer???? I called for Johnny and he woke up, I let him know my water had broken, and I don't think he belived me at first, then he realized it was the real deal and he sprung into action. He packed a bag, we got our stuff in the car and were on our way to the hospital...we were about to meet our sweet baby girl...so we thought. We actually got down the street and realized we had left our DVD's at home, so we turned around to go and get them, after all, we wanted to be entertained during the birth!!! We got to the hospital at around 3:30am and checked into the ER. They wheeled me up to Labor and Delivery, and we got ready for the Big Show :) They checked me and I was 1cm dialted and 75% effaced. Not anything to write home about. They strapped me up to this monitor which was checking 3 things...Joey's heart rate, my heart rate, and my contractions. They said I was having a contraction every 3 minutes, and I didn't belive them because I couldn't really feel anything! 4 hours went by and not much change. I could fell my contractions by now and got some medicine to help that pain....it made me feel drunk!!! Some time later, still not much progress...I was 3cm dialated so I could get my epidural!!! That was crazy...They raised the bed as high as it could go, had me hug a pillow, and in they went. The shot didn't hurt, it just felt wierd, like some pressure. From that point on it was crazy...they kept telling me that I was having contractions and that they were off the charts. Again I was in disbelief. I could feel my legs, my tummy and more, but I couldn't feel any contractions, when they checked my cervix...it was wierd. It was nearing the end and I was at 8cm. They came in to do another check and I had gone back to 7cm and my cervix was swelling :( At that point I was feeling contraction through the epidural...they were brutal..and I turned to the nurse and said "at what point do we go in and get her out??" From that point on the progress went really fast. They prepped me for surgery, showed Johnny what clothes to put on and took me to the OR for a C Section. They upped the epidural and began the process. About 5 minutes after I got onto the table, she was here! Johnny watched the whole thing....he's into that medical stuff. He said it was pretty crazy what all was going on down there in such a short amount of time. While they were sewing me up, Johnny went with Joey and got her tested, measured and weighed. She was 18.75 inches long and 7lbs 1.5 ounces. She scored an 8 on her first APGAR test at 1 minute and a 9 on her second APGAR test at 5 minutes. I'm not sure what the APGAR test is, but I do know that the highest score you can get is a 10 and no one gets a 10! After 4 days and 3 nights in the hospital we were discharged on Saturday and entrusted with this little human being. They said we would do fine and sent us on our way. Here we are day 5 at home...she's still pooping, peeing, eating, crying and breathing. I'd say we are doing pretty well as parents! I will post pictures soon, it's kinda hard to climb the stairs right now, and I have to load the upstairs! Thanks to everyone who sent us well wishes, gifts, cards and more....we love you and know that Josephine Leigh Stout will too :) Call if you want to come visit!

Monday, April 21, 2008

Are we there yet?????

Remember back in the day when you were driving in the car for what seemed to be an eternity? You would hold off as long as you could, then the million dollar question burst from your lips..."Are we there yet?" You have to understand that I was a particularly impatient child and this question would come out after only 30 minutes in the car. Mom would always say "NO" and that was that! Well, we are here in a different way....Joey continues to cook in this oven which is my belly, and today I found myself asking her "Are we there yet?" I can hear her in my mind saying "NO". I'm ready, I just wish she was!!!

Thursday, April 17, 2008

The result.....

o I talked with the scheduling nurse today at my doctor's office. I let her know that I didn't really want to induce unless there was a medical reason for it. She said she totally understood and so we rescheduled it for May 7th. This is past my due date of May 3rd, and we are hoping that she comes on her own before then, but if she doesn't, then we have a backup plan. Since she is measuring a little small, this date shouldn't be a problem, but she did say that if for some reason I start to swell, she starts to grow rapidly or if any other medical reason occurs then we may have to go ahead with a sooner date. I'm ok with that, but am relieved to know that there is no reason to do so just yet! Well, that's the update...so at the latest, we are going to meet Joey in T minus 3 weeks!!!! Yay :)

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

To Induce or Not to Induce.....That is the Question!

So on Monday we had a doctor appointment. They checked the baby, she's doing well!!! I guess still measuring about a week behind, but I'm not so certain, they didn't really say anything about it, so really that's just an assumption on my part. They checked me and I am 60% effaced, and possibly 1 cm dialated. I was asked how I feel, and if I was ready for her to come. I said I was a little uncomfy, and if she came today that would be fine with me! He said "great have we talked about induction??" I said "yes, in the beginning, we talked about it if I happened to go past my due date." He said great, "well let's get that scheduled...I'll have the nurse call you." I felt kinda rushed...I looked at Johnny and we were both obviously not expecting him to say that. I was caught so off guard that I couldn't come up with any questions at that time. Once Johnny and I left the questions flooded my mind.....Why are they trying to rush me? Is there a reason why they want Joey to come before her due date? Is this because my supposed due date is on a Saturday and no one wants to come in on a weekend? What is the induction process like? Why do they want to take the suprise element out of Joey's arrival? and many more...hence the flood reference! In this day and time we have this amazing tool for questions like these...it's called Google! I began to look up labor induction.....after all my "research" I'm not sure this is the way to go! If Joey's not ready and there is no medical reasoning behind the decision, then why do it? So I'd prepped myself to tell the nurse when she called that I didn't want the induction unless there was a medical reason as to why I had to have it. She called and has already scheduled it. YIKES....I called her back and left a message relaying my decision. We shall see...........

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

So ready it's not even funny!!!

So I had a doctor's appointment today......She said that my cervix is softening, and she could feel the baby's head! We set an appointment for April 14th, and she said she wouldn't be suprised if I had to call before the appointment to let them know I was going into labor. She also said that she would be even more suprised if Joey stayed in there till her actual due date on May 3rd. I personally feel like she is trying to crawl out at times! I am so ready to meet her! I will try and write more, it's kinda uncomfortable to type with my laptop because my lap is slowly getting smaller as my belly is getting bigger :)

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

So I had a doctor's appointment today......She said that my cervix is softening, and she could feel the baby's head! We set an appointment for April 14th, and she said she wouldn't be suprised if I had to call before the appointment to let them know I was going into labor. She also said that she would be even more suprised if Joey stayed in there till her actual due date on May 3rd. I personally feel like she is trying to crawl out at times! I am so ready to meet her! I will try and write more, it's kinda uncomfortable to type with my laptop because my lap is slowly getting smaller as my belly is getting bigger :)